1. Never take a decision in hurry, as its effects can be suffered for long times to come. It is always better to get a clear picture before u take any decision, clear picture can only be obtained by detailed study of scenario ur facing. by practice it will become easy for u ( reducing ur confusion ) it is quiet possible that sometimes u may take wrong decisions but make sure that they r Ur's only an not affected or pressurised by someone else.
2. Take few deep breadths, remember your parents and God and seek their blessings. Think for a little while and take decision in favour of what makes the God happier. If you try to make a person happy or if you try to make yourself happy, sometimes you may regret your decision. But if you try to make God happy in every decision you make, you will never repent your decision and later you will feel proud of your deiciosns
3. First, when confused mood, why to take any decision?
Second, even if it is important to take decision that moment only, try to find out the main reason behind your confusion & hit it back.
Third, Learn to manage yourself ( otherwise all ur reactions are going to manage u ) by being in present moment only. Being in that moment only & thinking straight towards ur goal / aim doesn't allow confusion to bother u.
Fourth, even then confused, correct ur confusion first & then take the decision & feel the responsibility of taking decision what so ever.
to sum up - What ever decision u take in confused mood, whether it was correct or not can only be decided when u come out of confusion. Therefore, isn't it better to first come out of ur confusion by hitting it back yourself ( it depends upon ur mind-set also ) or taking an advise from a suitable person.
4.look, if ppl could take correct decisions in confused mood everytym, everyone wld have been a rich man. but u can try and be calm, and taht varies frm person to person on how u can calm urself. take a deep breath and concentr8 to the core of the problem, the grassroot level
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